You'd have to first point me to an argument articulating how being against the practice of exclusivity is wrong, how the assessment that it's harmful to the openness of the PC is wrong. We can have a discussion about it.No because I've kept my ass out of this thread.
Frankly, you speak of all of this high minded 'entertain the possibility of being wrong about things' show me where that is in this thread from the clique.
Also, I replied earlier before I saw your edit regarding your personal life. I don't mean to invalidate you, and I can't imagine how much it sucks. Pain is pain, and regardless of emotions felt right now, damn that sounds like a rough spot. However, my life sucks too. Many people's do, and while comparing suffering is absolutely toxic and pointless, I would just say that it does not give anyone a license to misbehave.
Even if I, too, would like to be Mal some days.