You're doing it.I don't really know what Im doing in Outer Wilds. Im just doing stuff and hopefully Im progresing to something.
Lotta starts and stops in progress with this game.
My gameplay loop was as follows
1. Get on the ship
2. Go to the last place I found something of interest
2.1 Die getting there
3. Retrace my steps
3.1 Die retracing my steps
4. Get a little bit farther/more info
4.1 Die while doing so
5. Get stuck/confused/can't solve a puzzle through either gap in cognition, knowledge or execution
5.1 Die during puzzle or while unlocking new area
6 Accept death/Go balls out to investigate something
Every time.
Spent 30 hours on this game, eventually youtubed the ending.
Hours 5-25 were magic. First five and last five were painful.