Morality is subjective. There are people IRL who would consider me a saint, and others who would swear to you I was the antichrist or something. If you go through life without ruffling some feathers and making some enemies along the way, you're not doing it right imho.
It's impostor syndrome if you feel like those compliments are unwarranted... that you're scared that somebody might find out they were wrong all along... that in fact you're a hack but nobody seems to have noticed yet.
You are human, we are all gray messes trying to figure out how to behave.
I really dislike compliments, i guess some of us arent used to good things. Anyways, glad you are doing well
Also, i hate being the center of attention as well but one way or another i always end being there.
It can sometimes be good to look ahead and start making plans for what you want to do in the future, but if you try to spread your focus across a bunch of things at once you end up with a lot of great sounding ideas and no idea where to begin. As you said, moving forward is tough when you don't have a path.
No worries about keeping some of it to yourself! I'm so sorry to hear it's getting you down.Uh, I don't plan to talk too much about my situation because that would take a lot of time and I don't want to be even more down as I already am.
But you dream about meeting a girl who works at a book shop, enter a relationship, things are good.
Then you wake up.
How can I handle all those feelings right now. I need to scream
I traced back the error stack and at the very least it wouldnt had been enterely my fault. Boss was shook as well lolalmost
Yeah I know I should! Hell I even tried to have a girlfriend but it's really hard to find chemistry like I had with her. I do try to date but with my life situation it's been quite hard, and most my online always ask for money haha. So yeah.
A lot of people feel bad impulses. Don't give them attention. Yeah, easier when you are just commenting, but you get the idea.
Probably a case of professional envy. Fuck them.
Breh, your lady friend ain't worth it. Sounds like a manipulative jerk.
Those same thoughts and feelings have plagued me for years and are a daily struggle for me. For me my mind always goes down a checklist of, "If I go through with this how can I do it so it's going to be the least inconvenient for everyone.." and then it just goes on from there. It's unpleasant and scary.
You’re 20. It is absolutely normal to not know what you want in life at this age. Heck, at any age. The things I wanted last year are totally different from this year.
You're only in the beginning of your journey, it's normal to still figure out what you really want from life, most people don't know their purpose till they're in their mid 30s, or even older. Just find something you like to do and stick with that.
I have a habit of comparing myself and feeling that I'm losing, not in the sense that it's a race that I must win, in the sense that "hey, others are moving forward in their life and I'm stuck here doing nothing." That's why I'm feeling bad about this.
You know, as strange (and probably stupid) as this sounds, my problem is exactly this: I feel like there's nothing that I really like.
You have all the time in the world to try everything you want and find something special, no need to hurry things up. Just think about something that makes you comfortable, something you enjoy the most.
Lower your expectations. If ‘moving up in life’ means ‘I want a house, money, and a wife in three years time’, well, it is possible but sounds a bit too farfetched. Start with things that are within you control.
Thank you. Maybe I've been looking at all this from the wrong angle.
