- Apr 18, 2019
You are right, that is abuse. Refusing to accept that you have your own needs, that your side exists too is textbook gaslighting and refusing to acknowledge your own side of the relationship.i alwaus try to explain things my PoV and he just refuses to see it. When i do so it just "turning things around" on him. There is never any solution to our problems unless i bow my head, take the blame, and apologize for always being wrong.
I can't say anything more than what others have. Taking a break might be needed, as cruelly easy as it is to say to another .